你有没有试过看见一个人，你很确定你是认识那个人的，但偏偏想不起他叫什么名字，在哪里认识？
我经常有这样的经历，尤其是看见美女的时候。
我现在在我朋友的店里面，刚刚就有一个美女对我笑，而且我肯定是认识的那种笑。但，我偏偏想不起在哪里见过，也想不起她的名字。
天哪。。。虽然我有某人 1 号跟 2 号，但。。。一个会对我笑的美女，不可多得啊。
不过，也许是我过于谦虚。就在星期六那天晚上，一个女的主动过来认识我，还把电话号码给我了，嘿～原来老夫还是有点魅力的～～～哈哈哈（冷。。。）
Tuesday, August 22, 2006
Saturday, August 19, 2006
最近在看的书
最近在看一本书，是一个香港的男性朋友推荐的，叫做 Why Men Lies and Women Cries?
其实就是一本关于两性关系的书。
这本书道出了两性之间为什么那么多矛盾，以及解决办法。
作为一个男人，看这本书会发觉，在很多方面，对男人的描述是挺对的，可以加深对自己的了解。有些时候我们只知道潜意识让我们是这个样子，但，为什么呢？
原来两性的矛盾，很多时候是基于基因上的差异。女性的大脑让她们可以进行 multi-tasking，所以为什么女人可以同时间处理好多事情，或同时间讨论几个话题。
而男人呢，由于从原人时代开始，是负责狩猎，当然越是专注越好。也因此，男性很少可以同时进行多于一个 task 的。
还有，女性的语言能力是比男人强很多的，所以为什么很多时候男人会倾向于不说话，而女人却可以喋喋不休。
同时间，我还在看一本名为 Chaos 的书，讲述的是日常生活中，看似无序的东西里的法则。就像天气，云朵，烟雾，水流，等。。。
看书，看增长知识，也是进步的奠基石。
其实就是一本关于两性关系的书。
这本书道出了两性之间为什么那么多矛盾，以及解决办法。
作为一个男人，看这本书会发觉，在很多方面，对男人的描述是挺对的，可以加深对自己的了解。有些时候我们只知道潜意识让我们是这个样子，但，为什么呢？
原来两性的矛盾，很多时候是基于基因上的差异。女性的大脑让她们可以进行 multi-tasking，所以为什么女人可以同时间处理好多事情，或同时间讨论几个话题。
而男人呢，由于从原人时代开始，是负责狩猎，当然越是专注越好。也因此，男性很少可以同时进行多于一个 task 的。
还有，女性的语言能力是比男人强很多的，所以为什么很多时候男人会倾向于不说话，而女人却可以喋喋不休。
同时间，我还在看一本名为 Chaos 的书，讲述的是日常生活中，看似无序的东西里的法则。就像天气，云朵，烟雾，水流，等。。。
看书，看增长知识，也是进步的奠基石。
TransAmerica
昨天晚上看了 TransAmerica。内容是讲述一个准备变性的男人在手术前的一个星期，得知自己原来跟以前的女朋友有一个孩子，现在已经 18 岁了，却因为犯事而被关到牢里了。
他去把他的儿子保释出来，然后准备带他到自己住的地方。
在过程途中，他们慢慢的了解对方，但主角却一直隐瞒自己的真正身份，只说自己是一个教会的人。
也许这个孩子一直没有得到别人的关爱，他慢慢的对他的爸爸（主角）产生了好感，更愿意与他发生关系。就在此时，主角觉得不可以再隐瞒了，就告诉了他他们的真正关系。
其实我觉得这套电影真的不错，也许它没有紧张的剧情，也没有华丽的画面，但却道出了一般人对变性人的不理解及歧视。其实变性人本身比我们承受着更大的压力。对自身的否定，对别人的目光，不是一般人所能理解的。他们本身也许就是一个很大的谎言，但，是他们能选择的吗？
本来我是挺抗拒有关于同性恋及变性人的题材的电影，但，也许，我可以试着慢慢接受这类型题材的电影了，如：Brokeback Mountain
他去把他的儿子保释出来，然后准备带他到自己住的地方。
在过程途中，他们慢慢的了解对方，但主角却一直隐瞒自己的真正身份，只说自己是一个教会的人。
也许这个孩子一直没有得到别人的关爱，他慢慢的对他的爸爸（主角）产生了好感，更愿意与他发生关系。就在此时，主角觉得不可以再隐瞒了，就告诉了他他们的真正关系。
其实我觉得这套电影真的不错，也许它没有紧张的剧情，也没有华丽的画面，但却道出了一般人对变性人的不理解及歧视。其实变性人本身比我们承受着更大的压力。对自身的否定，对别人的目光，不是一般人所能理解的。他们本身也许就是一个很大的谎言，但，是他们能选择的吗？
本来我是挺抗拒有关于同性恋及变性人的题材的电影，但，也许，我可以试着慢慢接受这类型题材的电影了，如：Brokeback Mountain
Tuesday, August 15, 2006
Lost
Lost is a good show, keeps you thinking. And even worse, if you're into it, you can't actually miss any episode.
And they always keep everything a secret, the biggest secret about this show would be... when will this story ends?
The writer said he already has the whole story figure out, like what's really going on, how the story ends, etc... But, as long as people are still into it, he will keep stalling...
After finish watching Season 2, I looked at some forums online, and people are so into this show. People tries to solve all the mysteries, they even came up with many theories. Some people try to solve what's behind that numerical sequence, they even say, ooh, there's 4 people lost in that episode, so 4 would be representing that. 4 8 15 16 23 42... they will ends up adding them together, dividing it by the number they saw in the show, and comes up with 108... hmm... nice try, dudes...
So, here's another thing. If you are one of them, trapping on the island, a guy told you to keep inserting that sequence every 108 minutes, will you do that?
I guess I would be pretty much like Locke, will do that, but after a while, I would try not to, and see what will happen. Hmm... I guess... I can't save the world, lol.
And thinking about that leads me to other things. My friends asked me a question yesterday. Will you torture a someone, let say, to save your parents? For me, yes. Although I'll feel sick after that.
Actually, movies, TV shows, they give a lot of impact on people's mind. Like after watching Matrix, you may think we are actually living in a world like that, all controlled by the computers. After watching CSI, you will think, so, next time I need to kill a guy, I will shave myself, burn my clothes after that, don't drive my own car, throw away all the tools I used... hmm... are we crazy? Or just watch too much TV?
And they always keep everything a secret, the biggest secret about this show would be... when will this story ends?
The writer said he already has the whole story figure out, like what's really going on, how the story ends, etc... But, as long as people are still into it, he will keep stalling...
After finish watching Season 2, I looked at some forums online, and people are so into this show. People tries to solve all the mysteries, they even came up with many theories. Some people try to solve what's behind that numerical sequence, they even say, ooh, there's 4 people lost in that episode, so 4 would be representing that. 4 8 15 16 23 42... they will ends up adding them together, dividing it by the number they saw in the show, and comes up with 108... hmm... nice try, dudes...
So, here's another thing. If you are one of them, trapping on the island, a guy told you to keep inserting that sequence every 108 minutes, will you do that?
I guess I would be pretty much like Locke, will do that, but after a while, I would try not to, and see what will happen. Hmm... I guess... I can't save the world, lol.
And thinking about that leads me to other things. My friends asked me a question yesterday. Will you torture a someone, let say, to save your parents? For me, yes. Although I'll feel sick after that.
Actually, movies, TV shows, they give a lot of impact on people's mind. Like after watching Matrix, you may think we are actually living in a world like that, all controlled by the computers. After watching CSI, you will think, so, next time I need to kill a guy, I will shave myself, burn my clothes after that, don't drive my own car, throw away all the tools I used... hmm... are we crazy? Or just watch too much TV?
another new blog
I was using Blogger.com at the very beginning, however, due to the poor PRC Internet connection, it can never load the pictures on my blog, so, I switched to MSN Spaces. Which works fine, just, the speed is kinda slow sometimes, and you will just stuck there loading... and with their new spaces.live.com, it's even worse.
So I check back here at Blogger.com and find out they're testing new functions on Blogger.com (check out http://buzz.blogger.com). My old account wasn't in the list of beta tester, so, I applied a new account with my Gmail account. Which is this, a brand new blog again.
So I check back here at Blogger.com and find out they're testing new functions on Blogger.com (check out http://buzz.blogger.com). My old account wasn't in the list of beta tester, so, I applied a new account with my Gmail account. Which is this, a brand new blog again.
Sunday, August 13, 2006
昨天是倒霉的一天
昨天跟某人 2 号出去看摄影器材（其实最主要是买放大器）
结果大老远的跑到星光摄影器材中心才发觉他们要搬家，那边已经关了
然后坐了差不多一个钟头的地铁，跑回河南南路那边。。。
妈的那个冠龙也拆了。。。
就这样，杂俩浪费了两个钟头的时间（新的星光 9 月 9 号才开张）
之后杂俩跑到淮海路买移动硬盘（对，又去。。。连续两天。。。）
结果跑到同一个店，同样的价钱不肯卖
然后就跑到另外一个店，同样的价格，顺利买下来
之后还帮某人 2 号及友人买了各一套耳麦
然后。。。俺就头痛了。。。
由于已经约好了跟友人们吃晚饭，所以还是出去了
本来某人 2 号说吃好饭就要去找她的友人
结果由于某人 2 号的友人没有跟她联系
就跟俺的友人团一起出去玩了
最初去了一个叫 TMKS 的酒吧（在新天地）
之后去了 Park 97
叫了两瓶 Vodka
起初头痛还后，但从跟友人团玩 dice 的时候输的太起劲
头痛变本加厉。。。
大概 3 点左右，离开 park 到了铜仁路上的 Macau Portugese Restaurant 吃了点东西
四点到家，头痛还是跟着我回来（妈的，没有女人陪我回来，头痛却不请自来）
一睡到今天的下午 5 点
头痛终于走了，thanks God
现在，俺就站在窗前，盗用着别人的无线网路
感觉真好，还有几天就会有些开心的事发生了
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